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Wednesday, March 7, 2012

An Interview With a Sailor - The Navy Life From His Eyes

I asked a few friends what they would want to know about the navy life from a sailor's point of view. Then, I decided to interview my husband on what it's like to be a sailor. Mainly for the fun of interviewing my husband (lol) but also to inform some people who might not know very much about the Navy and what they do for our country and our other service men. I asked him to answer each question as if it wasn't his wife asking them and he did a pretty good job and took it seriously! I myself even learned a few things! So here it is, an interview with AT3 Shultz :)


What is the Navy's general operation?: The purpose of the navy is to keep the seas free and to provide assistance to troops on the ground.

Why did you join the military and why the Navy?: I joined the military to serve my country, to be part of something bigger than myself, and for job security. I chose the navy for the opportunity to travel the world.

Tell me about your basic training experience: Basic training sucked when it was happening. But looking back at it now it wasn't all that bad. I thought then that being away from home for 2 months was bad. Since then I've done one 7 month deployment and am currently on an even longer one. Basic training was hectic. There was always somewhere to be and something to be doing. We woke up, showered, ate, and worked out at the same exact time every day. As long as you did what you were told it was actually a breeze. Those who didn't do what they were told were constantly being yelled at and IT'd (intensive physical training). It was basically 2 months of learning how to follow orders and instructions.

How did you get through it?: I pretty much just got into a routine, the days went faster than you could imagine. The thought of getting out and going to the fleet and making a
steady paycheck got me through it.

Please describe your rank, job title, and primary duties with the Navy: I am a Petty Officer Third Class (E-4 paygrade) Aviation Electronics Technician. I am responsible for fixing the electronics that come out of the planes. As an AT you can be placed in many different shops on board that work on many different types of electronics from the planes. I work out of the Electronic Countermeasures shop. We work mostly on the ALQ-99 systems that are used on the EA-6b Prowler aircraft. It is used for jamming enemy signals such as radar. I also work on the ALQ-144 system, flown on the MH-60R SeaHawk Helicopter. It is Infrared Countermeasure. Used to protect the Helo from incoming missiles. Along with my primary duties as an AT I also have shop Collateral Duties. We have many programs that we must follow. I currently manage the Calibration program and several other shop programs, on top of my normal work.

Please explain the differences and how your duties have changed since becoming a PO: Since becoming a PO the biggest difference is my pay, which is a lot better. But mostly I've just taken on a few more responsibilities. Once making third class I became the shift Production Supervisor. So I am responsible for making sure the shift runs smoothly and placing personnel on equipment to run. I no longer do some of the shitty jobs I did as an airman, such as taking out trash or taking the laundry to ships laundry. All in all not a whole lot has changed. The jump from third class to second is a lot bigger.

Will you reenlist and why?: Yes I plan on reenlisting to do my shore duty. The economy is terrible and it is nice to have a reliable income. I plan on getting a degree in Electronic Engineering while I'm on shore duty so I have better skills to find a job when I get out of the navy.

What are your goals while still in the Navy?: My goals before I get out are to make first class petty officer and to earn a degree in electronics engineering.

How long is a typical work day and does that change when deployed?: In port the typical work day is 6-8 hours, Monday through Friday, depending on whats going on. We also have duty every 8 days where we have to stay on the ship for 24 hours. While deployed we work 12 hours days, 7 days a week. We have 2 shifts, daycheck from 7am-7pm, and nightcheck from 7pm-7am.

What is the work environment like and how it is different being deployed?: When you first check in its very overwhelming. You don't realize how big an aircraft carrier really is until you actually step foot on one. Its hard to find your way around, but after a few weeks you get the hang of it. When we are deployed the environment is completely different than when we are in port. In port there are no aircraft on board. Underway there are many aircraft throughout all the hangar bays. There is a lot going on all the time. You have to keep your head on a swivel and constantly pay attention to what you are doing. Just last month a friend of mine wasn't paying attention to where he was walking and hit his head on an aircraft wing and ended up with 5 stitches. The biggest thing is to make sure you don't become complacent. Once we are out for so long everyone starts to get lazy and not follow procedure or pay attention because they have done it for so long, that's when accidents happen.

Please describe a typical day on the ship: I work the daycheck shift from 7am-7pm. I wake up at 6am. Brush my teeth, wash my face, and go to the shop to inventory all the tools before shift starts. At 0700 I report to production control for the production meeting. We go over what every shop has going on for the day and anything the chain of command wants to put out to all the crew. After the meeting I usually go smoke then from 0800-0900 we have cleaning stations. For one hour everyone cleans all the spaces that belong to their shop. We have to dust, sweep,
wipe down walls, etc. cleanliness is important, this isn't just where we work, its where we live. After cleaning stations we get to work on any gear that we have. I usually eat lunch around noon. Dinner around 5pm. I get off shift at 7 pm. After shift I shower and read a book, play video games, or watch something on my laptop. Then go to sleep around 11 and do it all again the next day.

What's going through your head when you're about to leave for deployment?: Geez theres a lot going through my head right before we leave. I try not to think about it mostly. The biggest thought is being away from my wife for so long.

What's it like seeing nothing but water around you?: At first its kind of cool. But after a few days it gets old. Looking out at the same exact thing every day. No matter where we are in the world, whether it be off the coast of California or in the Persian gulf, the water all looks the same.

What's it like sleeping in a rack and sharing one berthing with several
others?:
It's cramped. Its only tall enough for you to be able to roll over, you cant sit up in it. There is a reading light in the rack so that's nice. I'm lucky where I sleep because I only have one other person who sleeps above me and a wall across from me. most of the racks are set up in cubicles of 6. 3 on each side. I sleep in a bottom rack. It's a pain trying to share the heads with everyone. Sometimes you have to wait for a shower to open up or for a sink so you can brush your teeth.

Are you or have you ever been in danger?: Being on an aircraft carrier is dangerous. I myself don't work on the flight deck, where most of the danger is, so I myself am not in much danger. On the flight deck there are constantly jets turning and launching and landing. The guys who work up there have a lot to pay attention for. It's no joke. As far as danger from being attacked, we are a navy ship, theres always a chance someone could try to attack us. Will something like that happen? Highly doubtful.

What are you most proud of as far as your achievments?: The achievements I'm most proud of are becoming qualified as an Enlisted Aviation Warfare Specialist and an Enlisted Surface Warfare Specialist. It took a lot of hard work and I had to know everything there is to know about aviation and the ship.

What things has the Navy trained you for that you wouldn't normally be
certified in?:
I am a fully qualified firefighter. Twice a week we practice general quarters, where we train for scenarios of mass damage to the ship, such as fire or missile or torpedo attack, and things such as flooding or structural damage. Every sailor on board is trained on how to keep this ship afloat in the event of an actual casualty. I am fully qualified in first aid and CPR. I am currently working on getting my certification to teach CPR class.

What's the food like on the ship?: The food. Sometimes it's good sometimes it's terrible. For the most part its not to bad. It's no home cooked meal, but its still good.

How do you stay in touch with your family?: We have phones onboard that you can buy phone cards for but they are kind of pricey. The biggest form of communication is email. And it's always cheaper to make phone calls once we make a port call.

How do you deal with missing them?: I just remember that they will be waiting for me when I come home. That's enough for me. Some people have a harder time being away, I'm just good at
controlling it. I remember that no matter what happens I'll be coming home to them. I'm part of something way bigger than myself, and have too many responsibilities to let it get to me.

Do you feel pressure or stress?: Absolutely. What we do here affects our troops on the ground. There is always a lot of pressure to get the gear out. We need to make sure our
brothers on the ground have our support. And it's very stressful. There's always a lot going on. Theres always work to be done. If you aren't stressed out here there's something wrong with you. It's how you handle it that makes the difference. Some people handle it better than others. I think I handle my stress pretty well.

How do you entertain yourself in your free time?: We have a few satellite channels on tv and the ships media department plays movies all day so there's that. We have a big screen tv and 3 video game systems in my shop. I mostly like to read. I have a kindle which is the best investment ever. I use it just about every day, and finish a book every few days. I also have a laptop computer to watch movies and tv shows on. If there's a tv show or movie you want, someone on the ship has it.

What is the first you do when you hit a port?: The first thing I do when I hit a port is eat. Like I said the food isn't terrible out here, but it's nice to have a big greasy big mac or some taco bell.

What is your favorite port you've been to so far?: I;d have to say my favorite port I've been to isn't even a foreign country. I liked Hawaii the best. The place was just so amazing. Coming in at second would have to be Singapore. Hopefully we get to hit a European port this
cruise.

How has your career in the Navy so far affected your life?: It's completely changed me. I'm much more responsible. Before the navy I never lived on my own, so that was a huge change. Ive lived in 3 different states since I joined, and I've been out to sea for months at a time. My life is nothing like it was before the navy.

What are your plans after the Navy?: I plan on getting a job as an electronics engineer hopefully designing some of the things I currently work on.

Deployments sometimes get extended. Has that ever happened to you?: Yes, we have already had 2 two month extensions added onto what was supposed to be a 5 month deployment. It sucks! But theres nothing I can do about it, and being angry or sad about doesn't make it any better. I know that there is a lot going on in the world right now and whether I like It or not we are needed here. What we do matters, we are saving lives, and providing support for our troops on the ground.

How did you feel when you got the news about the extension?: I felt angry. But I just stuffed It down and tried not to worry about it.

How do you feel when returning from a deployment?: It's the greatest feeling ever. Getting that first hug. That first kiss. It can't even be put into words.

Is it hard to transition back into a normal routine after a deployment?: I thought it would be. But no not really. Some things were different because my wife was not used to my messy ways, and used to dealing with everything on her own, but everything fell back into place pretty quick.

As a sailor, do you find it hard to obtain a healthy family life in
the military?:
Yes and no. Like I've said before it depends on the person. If you are really
a family, you can get through anything, no matter how long you may be gone. I don't find it hard, because I know my wife will wait as long as she has to. She might not like it, but she always supports the decisions I make.

How do you think your life would be different had you never enlisted?: Never really thought about it. But it would be completely different. I can't really come up with what it would be like because who knows what would have happened to me if I didn't join.

Do you think you'll keep in touch with the people you've met and
befriended in the Navy?:
Some of them yes, most of them no.

If you could do it all over again would you and would you still choose the Navy?: Yes I would and yes I would choose the navy again. I believe it was the best option for me at the time. It afforded me the opportunity to get out on my own and support myself and my wife. It has given me the opportunity to see things most people couldn't dream about.


Thanks to my husband for taking the time to answer all these questions!

Saturday, February 25, 2012

The stages of deployment & what I've experienced with our first and current deployment

Stage 1: Anticipation of Loss

"The wife will have some unexpressed anger, and the couple may bicker even though they usually do not. This can be upsetting if it is viewed out of context. Although unenjoyable, these arguments can be functional. They provide one way for the couple to put some emotional distance between themselves in their preparation for living apart. It is hard for a wife to feel warm and loving toward her husband when she is mad at him, and as one woman said, Its easier to let him go. Other frequent symptoms of this stage include restlessness (productive), depression, and irritability. While women feel angry or resentful (Hes really going to leave me alone with all this), men tend to feel guilty (Theres no way I can get everything done that I should before I leave.)"

What I experienced:
During this stage, I find that we're more loving than usual. We try to suck up every second of each other we can. There r little arguments over stupid things but that's normal for us. We never really fight about anything serious, if we fight at all. So it's just not us. But I understand why some couples would. The anticipation is the most stressful part in my opinion. U know he has to leave, u know it's gonna happen, but it still feels unrealistic. Especially when u think about the length of time he'll be away. Which brings on...

Stage 2: Emotional withdrawal
"In many ways, this is the most difficult stage. It occurs sometime in the final days before departure. Such statements as, I know I should be enjoying these last few days together but all I want to do is cry indicates a sense of despair or hopelessness. The marriage is out of the couples control. Although they push ahead trying to complete the list that never gets any shorter, the wife often feels a lack of energy and is fatigued. Making decisions becomes increasingly difficult. During this time, the wife may experience some ambivalence about sexual relations. The brain says, We've got to have sex; this is it for six months while the heart may rebel, But I dont want to be that close."

What I experienced:
This stage is mostly nothing like what I experienced. Other than crying before the first deployment. When I dropped him off on base for the first time, I almost got into a car accident on my way home from crying so hysterically. I don't recommend it! Try to wait until u get home! Our sex life, if anything was better knowing he was leaving and I didn't go thru a lot of these feelings until after he left because I wanted to enjoy what time we did have left together.

Stage 3: Emotional confusion/disorganization

"Wives often report feeling restless (though not productive), confused, disorganized, indecisive, and irritable. The unspoken question is, What am I going to do with this hole in my life? Whereas wives experience a sense of being overwhelmed, husbands report feeling lonely and frustrated. Unfortunately, a few women get stuck at this stage, either unable or unwilling to move on emotionally; they will both have and cause problems throughout the cruise."

What I experienced:
Now, I can definitely relate to this. Right after our first deployment I felt lost, and confused. We had JUST moved to a new state, I didn't know anyone or my way around. I went from having my parents take care of everything, to Kraig handling it all, to it all suddenly being piled up on my shoulders and I was definitely overwhelmed, afraid of being alone and screwing up financially, etc. Not to mention the loss of appetite. But above all things I really missed my husband! There were countless nights I called my mom crying in the middle of the night and she had to talk to me for hrs to calm me down. I would e-mail Kraig telling him in great detail how horrible i was dealing with everything. Which only made it even worse for him. But let me just stress that I feel it was important to feel that way because it really helped me find my independence, which I'll explain later. Now, this deployment I was already in deployment mode since he was only home for a few months before being shipped out again. So I just jumped right back into my routine and didn't really experience this stage at all... other than just missing him a lot. As for the women that get stuck in this stage, my best advice is to look towards the future and try not to worry about now. Get out and get a job or be with friends as much as possible so u can move onto the next stage...

Stage 4: Adjustment/Recovery

"At some point, wives may realize, Hey, Im doing OK! They have established new family patterns and settled into a routine. They have begun to feel more comfortable with the reorganization of roles and responsibilities. Broken arms have been tended, mowers fixed, cars tuned up, and washing machines bought. Each successful experience adds to their self confidence. The wives have cultivated new sources of support through friends, church, work, wives groups, etc. They often give up real cooking for cruise food; they may run up higher long-distance phone bills and contact old friends."

What I experienced:
This stage is the most important. And basically where I'm at now with our second deployment. I realized I'm actually better at handling our financial situation than Kraig was! I got a job and making my own money made me feel really good about myself and made the deployment go by a lot faster. I also realized I can fix most things on our car myself.. which that in itself made it a lot less stressful for me. I had a ton of new friends who were going thru the same thing as I was so it was nice to have people who could relate! I got used to coming home to only my dogs and not a husband and I was ok with that. I became set in my ways and realized how nice it was to clean and have it stay clean it not get messed up the same day. The late night calls to my mom had slowed down and I realized the e-mails to Kraig weren't helping either one of us and they stopped and were replaced by more positive ones. I was living on TV dinners and fast foods first deployment, because I just didn't know how to cook for one. This time, however, all my friends already moved to our change of home port in VA and I'm stuck in WA waiting for our PTS to get approved so I can move too. I quit my job because it became too caddy and stressful to deal with along with a deployment.So it's a little rougher this time around. But I did learn how to cook for one! Lol. So I'm hanging in there! The worst part is the two extensions. I still missed/miss my husband but it's getting better everyday! I'm definitely anticipating...

Stage 5: Expectation of reunion

"Approximately four to six weeks before the ship is due back, wives often find themselves saying, Ohmigosh, hes coming home and Im not ready! That long list of things to do while hes gone is still unfinished. The pace picks up. There is a feeling of joy and excitement in anticipation of living together again. Feelings of apprehension surface as well, although they are usually left unexpressed.

This is a time to reevaluate the marriage. That hole that existed when their husbands left did get filled “ with tennis classes, church, a job, new friends, school, - and now they instinctively know that they must clean house in their lives in order to make room for the men. Most experience an unconscious process of evaluation, I want him back, but what am I going to have to give up? Therefore, they may feel nervous, tense, and apprehensive."

What I experienced:
I went thru this stage to a tee! It was the most overwhelming stage for me. When we first moved in we only had a bed, a tv, and couches. So I made it my goal to make our house into a home before Kraig came back! So I felt pressured to finish it, and when I did, I was stressed that he wouldn't like it! I had to go shopping and get everything that he likes in the house, all his fav food and snacks. I had to hang out with my friends who had become family over the months because once the guys came back we all wouldn't be able to see each other everyday like we were used to. But none of that mattered as much as I thought it did at the time. The most important thing was...

Stage 6: Honeymoon

"This stage, too, is one in which the husband and wife are together physically but not necessarily emotionally. They have to have some time together and share experiences and feelings before they feel like a couple again. They both need to be aware of the necessity to refocus on the marriage. For instance; After one of the wives husband had been home for a few days, she became aggravated with him when he would telephone his shipboard roommate every time something of importance came up within the family finally declaring, "Im your wife. Talk to me!" During this stage, the task is to stop being single spouses and start being married again."

What I experienced:
Was nothing like what I heard or thought it might be. The second we were together again we were joking around and acting like ourselves. It was like he had never left at all and we went right back into our normal daily routines. There were some differences tho. Like now I was more independent and I had friends and we wanted our husbands to meet and etc. Don't get we wrong, there were some frustrations too. Like how messy I forgot he was and I was so used to keeping a tidy home while he was away. But it was mostly just perfect. I was warned a lot of couples have to go to counseling after a deployment because they find it hard to live together again. Which is totally understandable. I'm not saying it's wrong if u have to or had to go thru that. Because that is normal. Some people have a harder time with each of these stages and might not have experienced the same things I did. And that's ok! Eventually u will get back to normal and reach...

Stage 7: Readjustment

"Sometime within the four to six weeks after the homecoming, wives notice that they have stopped referring to "my car, my house, my bedroom" using instead our or we. New routines have been established for the family, and the wives feel relaxed and comfortable with their husbands. There is a sense of being a couple and a family. They are back on the same track emotionally and can enjoy the warmth and closeness of being married."

What I experienced:
Exactly that! And I can not wait to get back to normal after this deployment is finally over!:)


Some people will have an easier time, and some might have a harder time. This is just what I experienced and I thought I would share it and stress that there is hope in a deployment. I have my bad days, of course (obviously u know that if u read my previous post!) I miss my husband everyday, but I mostly have good days. The best advice I could possibly give anyone going thru a deployment is to stay as busy as possible. Staying busy not only keeps ur mind off it, but it also occupies ur days and makes them go by faster.. making deployment go by faster! Even if it seems like it's going by slow at the time, I can almost guarantee that once it's over u will think to urself "Wow, that really DID go by pretty fast!" and u can just enjoy ur time together!:)

Don't mind me, I'm gonna vent a little and then get over it!

So! We just went thru a 7 month deployment last yr. Just to have Kraig come home for a few short months and be shipped out again on another deployment. Which was do big deal.. we knew it was gonna happen and prepared ourselves for it. However! It was supposed to be a short deployment. Which obviously, made it easier on us going into it knowing he wouldn't be gone for as long as last time. Welp, right when we were about to hit our half way mark.. they extended it two month. Sucked. But we dealt with it, obviously nothing we can do about it except suck it up. It's only two more months after all. U might be thinking 'Hm, sounds pretty shitty already, Allie!' well that's not even the worst of it! I wake up today to an e-mail from Kraig saying deployment got extended ANOTHER two freaking months! So now, it's actually longer than the first deployment. Awesome! I swear, I'm not gonna be complaining about this everyday (other than the occasional 'I miss my fucking husband!' posts) but I just had to vent about it bc I pretty much hate the Navy right now. So yea. That's it.

NEEDLESS to say, I'm going to a mini shopping spree on payday to make me feel better. I think I deserve it. :)

On a better note! I completely updated everything on my page with new stuff and updated info! So if u wanna check it out, cool! If not, that's cool too. Whatevs. Lol.

Tuesday, May 25, 2010

I'm going hoome! =)

We're going home for Memorial Day weekend and I'm super excited! It's nice living so close to home. We're originally from Pennsylvania so in Virginia we're only about 7 hrs away! So we try to go home as much as we can since we'll be moving clear across the country soon.

Home Sweet Home!


Actually I lived about an hr outside of the city in a small country town you've never heard of! Yep, that's right,.. Who's a country girl? This girl right here! =) Lol. I miss it there a lot! I mainly just miss the familiar- Knowing everyone's cars, all your neighbors, all the roads, the stores... etc. It's crazy starting from scratch so many times! We're only a year into my husband's contract and have already moved twice and will be moving again next month! Lol.

How many times have you had to move for the military? =)